Best DVDs I watched in 2009

I don’t go out to theaters to watch movies. It’s just not worth the money to me. I let the wife go out to see movies with friends but I usually don’t go with her.

For that reason, instead of doing a “Best Movies of 2009″ list, I have to do a “Best DVDs of 2009″ list. And since I haven’t seen all the movies that came out on DVD in 2009, it really is a “Best DVDs I watched in 2009″ list, which might also include some stuff from 2008 and even 2007 (I’ll leave out any older movies I watched for the first time this year).

  1. Away We Go
  2. Up
  3. Food, Inc.
  4. The Class
  5. Tropic Thunder
  6. The Visitor
  7. Burn After Reading
  8. Waltz With Bashir
  9. I’ve Loved You So Long
  10. I Love You, Man

Stewardship over tithing

Since I don’t know the Bible as well as I should, I Googled “jesus tithing” and came up with this article (http://www.ehow.com/about_4572423_what-does-jesus-say-tithing.html) which states that Jesus only mentions tithing three times and in each case, it’s a reprimand to the Pharisees, saying that tithing, in itself, does not sufficiently give evidence of a life lived in accordance with God’s will. As with other Old Testament laws, Jesus does not simply rehash the law; he takes it a step further and says there is a much greater expectation on how we live our lives than simply making sure we write a check for the right amount to place in the offering plate. However, Jesus does give us the well known parable of the talents, which has to do with stewardship — how we choose to use what God has given us.

In this time of economic crisis, I’ve seen churches act desperate over the decline in giving this past year. As human beings, that is a natural response — churches, as with any non-profit or for-profit organizations, are responsible for a budget, programs and staff and when we find ourselves unable to maintain programs, continue paying staff salaries, etc., we feel a sense of responsibility to find some way to make it happen. So in my eyes, churches are acting entirely human, which I think is normal and for which there is grace.

However, what I’d ideally like to see is an emphasis on stewardship over tithing. Unfortunately, there are many churchgoers who are in financial distress and do not have the knowledge and skills to get themselves on the path to financial health. Instead of focusing on the church budget’s shortfall and how people need to give more so that the church can maintain their budget, we need to turn back to the idea of stewardship and talk about what practices people need to incorporate into their lives so that when the next crisis hits, there is a little bit extra to help others and to help the church. I believe there is very little use in giving people money, without giving people the skills to steward that money appropriately.

What are some of the concrete action items I am suggesting in response?

* We need people who have an understanding of good personal finance practices to volunteer their time to teach others.
* We need to stop the explicit and implicit teaching that the act of the tithe, in itself, is some sort of requirement to living a holy life. Tithing should be a natural act of worship that is a part of a larger concept of sacrifice and worship that involves the giving of not just money, but also of time, physical resources, talents, etc.
* We need to encourage people to not allow consumerism and materialism to rule their lives.

Even more concretely, but probably more controversially, here are some other action items I believe should be enacted by churches and churchgoers:

* Churchgoers should not tithe until they have paid off all their credit card debt. Learn about compound interest, do some calculations of how much a credit card debt of $2000 *really* costs over time, and come back to me if you still think people should tithe if they have credit card debt. This should not be seen as a free pass for people who have debt; the intent is to get people to financial health as quickly as possible so that they are able to give even more.
* Churches, as with any organization, must cut their budgets and layoff staff in response to budgetary shortfalls. No one is exempt from economic hardship and I believe it is selfish and irresponsible to think that churches can continue to meet their budgetary targets on the backs of churchgoers who are living off of unemployment and high interest debt.

In conclusion, it’s simple — let’s encourage stewardship over tithing.

My perspective on faith and the church

In recent years, I’ve tried to make this my guiding philosophy on how I live out my faith, especially with regards to my involvement in church:

“What happens within the context of the local church does not matter. What matters is how Christians impact the world outside the boundaries and walls of the church.”

This is important for me because in the past, I’ve attended a number of churches that have equated serving the church with serving God. Basically, if you played on the Sunday music team, helped set up for Sunday service, cooked food for the after-service meal, you were serving God. I don’t want to say that those acts of service are not “for God” but I think there is a higher calling to serve God that can become lost within the busyness of just keeping the local church functioning on a week to week basis.

So what is this higher calling of service? I believe Christianity will flourish only when God’s love is made obvious to people outside the church. That sorta sounds obvious but why don’t most churches’ ministries reflect that? Most people who live in Western societies have absolutely no interest in walking into a church building, so in order to engage those people, we have to do our ministry outside of the confines of the church. The idea that you can create a church service with hip music and relevant preaching that would actually be attractive to non-believers is ridiculous.

In my opinion, the institution of the church should be extremely lean and agile, with a focus on empowering Christians to be expressions of God’s love in the secular realms of their life (e.g. work, school, friendships, neighbors, etc.). Churches should not burden their congregants with spending hours every week running programs within the church. Remember, non-religious people are not interested in going to church! Also, most church programs only seem to exist to serve other Christians! The local church should not attempt to set up a “parallel” Christian version of the world where Christians can escape to. I believe we Christians need to learn to serve God at our workplaces, with our friends, with our neighbors, etc.

How is this practically reflected in my life? I started attending a new church about ten months ago and I’ve had the urge to make commitments to various areas of service within the church. However, I’ve constantly had to remind myself that I do not want to fall into the trap of spending too much time basically running church programs. Instead, I would much rather meet up for dinner or drinks with co-workers or other friends with the intention of getting to know them better.

I’m very far from being a prime example of how to live this out but in my heart and mind, it feels more in line with what I believe God wants for His Church than what I see in the American church planting movement as not being much different than some major retail chain’s store expansion plan. New churches shouldn’t be planted simply to provide jobs for newly graduating seminarians and to keep lay Christians busy and feeling like they’ve checked off their “I’ve served God this week” box. If you’re currently in seminary, consider dropping out and going back to your old job. I strongly believe that this world needs more Christian engineers, dancers, bankers, marketers, salespeople, janitors, lawyers… and not more pastors. The people of God can change the world but will do so only by being in the places where the people of God currently are not.

iPhone areas for improvement

I’ve been an iPhone owner for a few weeks now. As many of you may know, I was opposed to getting an iPhone for a while but it’s the only non-BlackBerry smart phone that my company will officially support so it was my best option.

In general, I think the iPhone is a great device but it is not without areas for improvement. Here are the features which are currently missing from the iPhone that are the most important to me:

Push GMail and/or multiple Exchange/ActiveSync accounts
After having a BlackBerry for years, I guess I took push email for granted. Push email means that the servers will automatically send email to your device at the moment the server receives the email. You don’t have to go into an app to tell the servers to pull down the new email.

Yes, I know Google has found a workaround by using Microsoft’s ActiveSync technology to push your GMail to your iPhone, similar to how corporate email is set up to be pushed to iPhones. Unfortunately, the iPhone only supports one Exchange/ActiveSync account per device, so if you’re already using it for corporate email, you cannot also set up your personal GMail as a second Exchange account.

I’m sure if Google were not a direct competitor to Apple in the smart phone space, they would have come up with a better solution for this by now, but basically, if you’re heavily dependent on Google’s services (GMail, Google Voice, Google Docs), you should get an Android phone instead of an iPhone since the iPhone will always have second-class support for Google services.

Using an alternative From: address in the iPhone mail client
This one is just silly. Pretty much every email client out there supports setting up a separate From: address from the email address you are actually sending from. So one very common use case for this is when universities only give their alumni forwarding email accounts, rather than real email accounts. Your real email account might be peter@gmail.com but you always want people to send to and think you are sending from your university-associated forwarding account, peter@alumni.case.edu. I don’t want people to have any idea that I’m using GMail as my underlying email provider because it gives me the flexibility of changing email providers in the future without having to tell everyone I have a new email address.

While the iPhone is far and away the leader in certain aspects of smart phone technology (media player, web browser, app support), it still lags BlackBerry in being a premier email client. These two feature requests above are not terribly difficult to address, so hopefully Apple gets their act together and makes the iPhone a stronger competitor to the BlackBerry with regards to email.

This weekend: Being a tourist in NYC

My sister is visiting for about five days starting this Thursday. It’ll be her first time in New York City, so we’ll probably do all the touristy things and eat lots of good food. Since the wife is working, it’ll just be my sister and I for most of this. If any of the following sound interesting to you, I wouldn’t mind having some company. Please let me know!

Attractions
Governors Island Guided Walking Tour (Thursday)
Greenmarket (Friday or Monday)
Grand Central Terminal
Rockefeller Center
MoMA (Target Free Friday from 4-8pm)
Brooklyn Botanic Garden (Free on Sat morning 10am-12pm)
South Street Seaport
Empire State Building
Brooklyn Bridge
Times Square at night
Broadway show? (maybe In the Heights)
Statue of Liberty/Ellis Island?
Central Park
Montauk?

Food/drink
Aliada (Greek in Astoria)
Spitzer’s Corner (Foodie pub in Lower East Side)
Ippudo (Japanese in East Village)
Hanbat (Korean in Herald Square)
Cafe de Bruxelles (Belgian in West Village)